Tuesday, August 10, 2010

FANTASIA'S SUICIDE ATTEMPT AND WHY THESE CHEATING AZZ MARRIED MEN NEED TO STOPPPP!

Ohhh mahhhh goodnesssss. We're a little late reporting this, but we've been reading the other blogs about the drama surrounding Fantasia and her on-off relationship with some married dude named Antwaun (whom she met in a T-Mobile store, WHERE HE WORKED) for quite some time now. We were guessing it's because he's married that she was trying to keep the relationship low-key. But, now that all of her business has been put out there for public consumption, we digress.

Fantasia and flame Antwaun Cook
The Fantasia, Antwaun, Paula drama has been swirling for months now, but whenever Fantasia was questioned, she'd go straight into denial mode. She even publicly denied having a blatantly obvious tattoo of the man's name on her arm. But now, the denials have changed to accusations that Antwaun had been lying to her all along about the status of his marriage.

According to Fantasia's manager, dude had been telling Fantasia that he and his wife were divorcing, and even convinced her that he no longer lived in the home with his wife (and kids!) But last week, Antwaun's wife, Paula, actually did file for divorce (which cited her discovery of multiple sex tapes of the two lovers) and named Fantasia in a lawsuit, which seemingly has blindsided the R&B songstress.

And, now, after all the drama and public humiliation, Fantasia is in the hospital after a failed suicide attempt. According to reports, she overdosed on aspirin and sleep aids. The responding officer's report cites that they responded to a "suicide attempt" call. When police arrived, they found Fantasia in a closet of her home from where she was immediately rushed to Mercy South Hospital in Pineville, where she is now in stable condition. Damn Shame!

Fantasia and Antwaun have been seeing each other for eleven months now,but you'd think it's been eleven years the way Fantasia is handling things. After all she is the mother of a young daughter. But we aren't mad at her at all because that's what love (or what you think is love) will do. Love will make you believe a cheating, lying, son-of-a-bitch when he says his marriage is no more, and he wants to begin a new life with you. Love will make you turn your head to avoid the truth behind the lies.

We don't doubt that she wanted to sing to the world about her new relationship, but didn't at his behest. "I'm going through a divorce and this could give her the upper hand." "As soon as the divorce is final, we can go public, otherwise I may lose my parental rights." "The marriage is over but I'm afraid to sign the divorce papes 'cause I can't afford child support." "She's a horrible wife and mother and I want out." Ohhh, we can hear the lies all the way over here Antwaun!

Yes, HE is to blame. HE was the one in the marriage. HE is the one who left his family to frolick around the world with Fantasia. HE is the one manipulating all parties involved to satisfy his own selfish agenda. Whether it's Fantasia's money and fame, or the fact that he's just plain greedy, he pursued the relationship knowing full well he should not have been doing so. Knowing he was in an active marriage. Knowing his wife and kids were at home expecting their lives to keep on as, "usual family business".

If Dog would have straight up in the very first place simply said to Fantasia, "I'm married with kids/I'm a family man/I'm not available" (however you want to phrase it) and left it at that, surely she would have kept right on steppin' out of that T-Mobile store without a second thought. No flirting, no seduction, no lies-- just the truth. But instead he chose to lure her in. He flirted and flattered and seduced her to the point of her current breakdown. If anything, she should be the one instigating the lawsuit. And, how dare people judge and assume things by labeling her a home-wrecker. No, HE, is the home-wrecker! Do we seem upset? Well, maybe a little. This type of thing doesn't just happen to famous folks. Chew on that. [Source]

5 comments:

  1. T-Mobil store..suicide...Fantasia WAKE UP!! Can you hear me now?? ~sorry wrong phone compnay~

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  2. Also ladies, please stop blaming the man..You knew he was ~Married~ and you should know how the story is going to end!!! right?? Orpah holla @ 'em

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  3. AGAIN, Did you READ the POST?! These "MEN" are LYINGGGGG about their status!!! Get it??? Those who defend them are GUILTY as charged! Oprah knows what's up! She sees this foolishness go on alll the time on her show!

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  4. Yes girl I read the post..My G.E.D. does work you know...She had to know @ some point in time that he had someone else!!!!!

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  5. Yeah obviously THE TRUTH and all of THE TRUTH surfaced with the divorce papers/lawsuit and it hit her hard. She should not be blamed for believing his bedtime stories. Marriages break up all the time. Divorces take years sometimes and in the meantime the couples go on about their business while said paperwork is being processed. Married men who are still at home but cheat do what it takes to get what they want. They are called predators. Why blame the victim is all we're askin' here. Your defensiveness says you're suspect. Ya'll negroes (yeah, Ya'll!) can be so damn triflin' and that's THE TRUTH! Deal wit it!

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